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*takes a deep breath* I will not let this fictional character ruin me

failed step one

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I was like…


• They’re casting people of color as characters that are POCs
• They announced Mr. Wednesday’s casting on a Wednesday
















Let’s say you make some vegan chocolate chip cookies. (I looked a recipe up for the sake of this post). These cookies are made with almond milk.

You have a friend that you’ve known for a few months now, and you think it would be nice to surprise them.

So, you offer them one of the cookies. You don’t tell them they’re vegan. As far as your friend is aware, they’re made with cow milk and chicken eggs.

Your friend takes one bite, and a few minutes later you’re using their epi-pen on them and calling 911.

See, what just happened is that your hypothetical friend here has a nut allergy that you didn’t know about, and the almond milk in the cookies was enough to put them in the hospital.

You could have avoided this whole situation by informing your friend that they’re vegan, thus prompting the question “It’s not made with almond milk, is it?”

This doesn’t just apply to cookies. While I’ve never found one, if you happen to know of a vegan fake meat that’s not made with soy and looks and smells exactly like the meat version, don’t serve it to someone and not tell them until after they eat it.

“But I, a vegan, would never do that!”

Great, then this post isn’t about you. This post is about the people who post shit like “when you give your friend vegan food without telling them and they like it *insert gif here*”, and it’s also about the thousands of people who reblog it.

– Avery

And some people have dusgestive issues or health issues that conflict with some vegan ingredients too

Soy and wheat are used in a lot of meat replacements, and are also 2 of the top 8 food allergens.

And, as mentioned before, peanuts and tree nuts are two more–so, half of the most common food allergens are the things used as vegan substitutes. (Which is also why a lot of people can’t be vegan.)

Basically don’t tell someone you’re giving them one thing when secretly it’s another, ever

This goes for vegan food and also goes for stuff like decaff coffee and so on, there are good reasons why people CAN’T eat/drink certain foods sometimes and tricking them into eating/drinking something without their knowledge by letting them think it’s one thing when it is another isn’t always a harmless thing to do it can actually put their life at risk 😦

Honestly? As a person with food allergies who also does a fair amount of vegan baking (BECAUSE of my food allergies!) –
I think it’s on the person with allergies to ask before consuming something? If you know some food might kill you or make you violently ill, you are not likely to accept gifts of food from people without making sure they are safe.

The entire premise is that the person is being tricked.

And the entire post is explaining that you should not trick people into trying something different because it could negatively affect their health.

Someone brought up decaff coffee as an example, which has been discussed in a barista post as well. Giving anything but decaff coffee to a triple bypass patient could land them in the OR again or worse. In the barista example the patient goes to a coffee shop, orders decaf and is given full caf instead. The same has happened with people ordering soy and getting full fat. So on and so forth.

So, in conclusion, this is not a psa for people with food allergies. This is a psa for those of us lucky enough not to have them and those near sighted enough to find it difficult to recognize that other people live with them.

I have food allergies. I usually ask. But here’s something that actually happened once: my dining hall made Salisbury steak with nutmeg, to which I am allergic. I did not think to ask, “Hey, is there nutmeg on this beef?” because beef is almost never made with nutmeg. I assumed the smell was coming from the carrot cake sitting next to it, since carrot cake often is made with nutmeg. To put it mildly, I spent the rest of the day in considerable distress. To this day, I have never encountered a recipe for Salisbury steak that calls for nutmeg.

However, it’s also ridiculous to say “You should always ask what’s in something!” because sometimes it’s fucking ridiculous. I’m not going to list off all my food allergens to see what’s safe to eat; I’m going to stick to food that generally is safe and google or ignore the rest.

But say you’re allergic to apples, and you see chocolate cake. You know there are NEVER apples in chocolate cake, so you take a piece. Uh-oh: it’s vegan and applesauce was used in place of eggs.

If you’re deviating from the standard, LET PEOPLE KNOW.

I’m gonna reblog this version for the commentary. My sister is allergic to most meat substitutes (including soy) due to her nickel allergy, so she’s one of those people you shouldn’t surprise like this. Please signal boost this.

Another thing that’s a problem here: Don’t assume you know their reasons. Yeah, there are a lot of annoying hipsters going “gluten-free” for silly fad reasons. But there are also people who really can’t eat it because of celiac disease. Making a “point” to the former isn’t worth hurting the latter. Unless you’re an asshole.

I’ve got Crohn’s Disease. Almost anything in it with fiber (like say vegetables) makes me ill and causes extreme pain in my digestive track. I have to take a 3,000 dollar medicine twice a month to control it. Like soy. Soy can make me sick.

So yeah. Don’t trick people into eating something. 

Even when you do ask, it doesn’t always help. MOST people are forthcoming about ingredients, but I’ve also had conversations like the following:
“Here, try some of this!”
“Does this have milk in it?”
“Just try it!”
“Does it have milk in it.”
“Just eat it.”
“Does. This. Have. Milk. In. It.”
“Actually, I’m not sure.”

Now with something like this I can (and do) pass, but if this person were deliberately trying to trick me, like if they – say – thought my avoidance of dairy was a fad thing or all in my head? I’d probably take them at their word and pay for it later. My dairy intolerance isn’t a life threatening thing, but for many it IS, and you should never assume you know better. Especially if the food in question is made with something unexpected. That goes for vegan as well as things like low-carb/paleo foods.

Please don’t trick people. I’ve gotten more than one crippling migraine because someone gave me regular instead of decaf, and caffeine is my worst migraine trigger. I’ve gotten really sick because I ate the wrong dressing at a holiday dinner (chicken broth was in it, I hadn’t eaten meat in years and I spent the rest of the evening in the bathroom). In addition to migraines, I have GERD. I have friends and family with food allergies and sensitivities, celiac’s, crohn’s, diverticulitis, etc. We all have reasons to be careful what we eat. Just tell us what’s in the damn food.

If you plan on “surprising” someone with food prepared in a way they aren’t expecting, you’d better damn sure have all their dietary restrictions sorted out first. Otherwise you could be violating someone’s religious or moral standards, making them ill, or even putting their life at risk. You could kill someone.

I will reblog this a thousand times, although I’d never think my followers would be thoughtless or cruel like this. I have a meat allergy (it’s a real thing, look it up) and the worst thing would be if someone thought it would be funny to feed me meat or meat by-products as a “joke”, just to prove that I’m just a stuffy, holier-than-thou-vegetarian. No. I will get sick, and throw up, and have diarrhea for days, and I’ve had to take sick leave from work after accidentally eating some pizza with kebab meat in it (we thought it was mushrooms LIKE THE ORDER SAID BUT NO they got it wrong so YAY two days sick and bedridden because of half a slice of pizza with kebab bits in it.)
Please be considerate of other people’s food restrictions. 

My gut just really cannot process carrageenan. If you don’t know what carrageenan is, it’s a seaweed-based thickener often used in vegan and vegetarian foods. It helps give things like non-dairy milk a creamier, more emulsified texture. It can also be used in place of gelatin for vegan, kosher, and halal diets.

I honestly thought I was allergic to soy for years, because every time I consumed any soy-based dairy replacement I would end up in the bathroom for like three fucking days.

No, accidentally consuming something made with almond or soy milk won’t kill me, but it will make me incredibly fucking miserable.

It’s in non-vegan stuff too, so I generally check at-risk products but you still need to be up front about this sort of thing.

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yo shout out to everyone in fandom who can’t write or draw or make pretty graphics. to the ppl who post head canons bc they don’t know how to write a story or draw it. to the ppl who post fanmixes with no covers bc they don’t know to make them. to the ppl who can only leave comments bc they love the stories and art but don’t make them. to the ppl too shy to comment who just like and reblog and leave kudos.

all of you are just as integral to fandom as the ppl who write 100k fics and draw comics and create elaborate art and graphics. without ppl like you everyone else would just be shouting into the void without any feedback whatsoever. you are literally the reason why ppl create–bc your head canons inspire, bc your fanmixes can provide just as many feels as a long fic, bc your responses (no matter how small) encourage.

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Eastern Soul Nebula


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To DREDD or not to DREDD?