Posts Tagged ‘words to live by’

Posted: June 22, 2016 in Uncategorized
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howto-joelheyman:

highgreenviahilsborough:

cassandrashipsit:

awkwardprincessally:

impbones:

briedoof:

spectrograph:

a good thing to do for your friends with anxiety disorders: if you have a question you need to ask them or something you need to tell them, explain the subject of the question/the statement in the same message as your opening one!

so basically: instead of saying “can i ask you a question?” and sending just that (which, as a person with an anxiety disorder, makes my anxiety go into hyperdrive) go “can i ask you a question about ___?”

it’s a little thing but honestly few things make me anxious like “i have a question for you” or “there’s something i need to tell you” without immediate explanation. thanks!

“call me, nothing is wrong, just wanna talk on the phone” would be so much better than “Call me.”

Actually please to all of this please.

YES PLEASE.

YES THIS OK????? Like I have trained my husband to say “nothing bad, I just need to call you because it’s too much to type.” It helps SO MUCH. Just let me prepare myself, because I guarantee my imagination will take me to much much darker places.

Might I add, if someone with anxiety has just said something to you that’s a lot to process, and you need some time to think about what to say in response, please consider a quick “I’m not ignoring you, I need to think about what to say and I don’t want to say the wrong thing.”

Because that definitely saves your friend with anxiety a lot of strife and assuming they’ve ruined your friendship forever. Nothing is crueler than a “Seen 2:25pm” when it’s 10am the next day and you’re waiting on a reply to a huge confession.

Normally I don’t acknowledge my anxiety very much but to any of my friends this would genuinely be helpful. Thanks 

This is very helpful. Context is a huge and welcomed A+… people without the worry of anxiety often shut it down yet need to understand: if you’re uninformative you’ve created a bad situation with questions and direction AND the mind before you. Probably why I give a shit ton of details and it pisses off others (I’m trying to block the habit)…

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Posted: March 16, 2016 in Uncategorized
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tobeagenius:

Pyschological Life Hacks. More like this on To Be A Genius and Pysch2Go

Posted: March 15, 2016 in Uncategorized
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creamhy:

15 things to remember:

1.   that thing you did that was kind of embarrassing and weird, everyone else forgot about that already

2.   you look fine today, if you can’t notice something on your face standing 6 feet from a mirror then nobody else will either.

3.   social lives can go through cycles sometimes, if you feel like your friends are all ignoring you for no reason they’re probably just busy with other things.

4.   if you can’t stop thinking about someone or something, read a book, paint your nails or watch a movie. it won’t solve any serious problems but you will feel better.

5.   listen with the intent to understand, not the intent to reply.

6.   if you want something, go get it. 

7.   drink lots of water, eat lots of fruit, exercise more, go outside, get enough sleep and think positive thoughts.

8.   if you don’t ask, the answer will always be no.

9.   throw away the idea of a perfect tomorrow and live in the moment.

10.  stop comparing yourself to others.

11.  a beautiful day begins with a beautiful mindset. It’s a privilege to simply be alive and healthy. Start acting like life is a blessing.

12.  act the way you’d like to be and soon you’ll be the way you’d like to act.

13.  you will change. You’re not the same person you were three years ago. you’re not even the same person you were three minutes ago and that’s okay. especially if you don’t like the person you were three minutes ago.

14.  you don’t have to open the curtains if you don’t want to.

15.  being happy is the most important thing.

Posted: March 10, 2016 in Uncategorized
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swinku:

A friendly reminder to myself and others, that there is a lot more to you then what you do or create. Although sometimes it doesn’t feel that way

Posted: February 7, 2016 in Uncategorized
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bleeply:

personal reminder: stop being so fucking hard on yourself

Posted: February 4, 2016 in Uncategorized
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ravingsofabitch:

savingsergeantbarnes:

butiknevvhim:

please love yourself as much as anthony mackie loves the falcon

#and respect yourself as much as chris evans respects steve rogers#and protect yourself as much as sebastian stan protects bucky barnes (via)

#and take no shit the way scarlett johansson doesn’t take any people’s shit for Natasha Romanoff (sliceosunshine)